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Monday, August 17, 2009

Friends

Hey all...
had a nice weekend?? :)

Hope u all enjoyed ur weekend.. esp when u spend dgn ur family n frens, kan..?

F.R.I.E.N.D..... what is friend actually.? a person you know well and regard with affection and trust(?).. thats a definition i got from wordnetweb.princeton.edu.

i ada cerita yg mungkin agak menarik (kot lah) tentang kawan ni.. sebelum tu meh cita sikit pasal myself.. orang yg kenal anum, akan kata anum ni banyak mulut, kelakar (?), dan easy to get going... tp yg tak kenal, dan yg baru nak kenal akan kata anum ni sombong, serius, susah nak dekat...? betul ke..? well, it depends on how u approach me lah kan. ;)

forget about 'perasan' me, and let me share about my frens then... girls, as u all can see tak macam lelaki... kalau boleh tengok dari zaman persekolahan lagi girls tend to cope with certain ppl je... kebanyakannya ada clique2 tertentu (tidak semuala).. kalau nak dibandingkan dengan lelaki yg kebanyakannya boleh bergaul dengan semua pelajar lelaki.. betul?tolong cakap betul.... pls..lol..

tapi tak kira la lelaki atau perempuan pun, selalunya kalau kawan kita sudah ada bf/gf automatically kita akan rapat(not too)/kenal kekasih hati diorang la kan? mungkin??
dulu, i mmg agak ok and rapat with seorang girl ni, e/t kitorang baru saje kenal.. mungkin sbab kami banyak persamaan (kot?).. we shared lots of interests... fell in love with the same person (suka2 je.. hehehe..).. and even shared the same birthday (yay!) n of coz i pun kenal bf dia la jugak.. kdg2 kami lepak bertiga (note:i w single at that time).. things seemed to be fine for both of them..

well, when i completed my study, kami (me+my gf) jd agak renggang..why? i pun tak tahu :( .. until 1 day i met her again, n the 1st thing she said to me was.. "i'm no longer with 'w' (her bf).. dia ade pempuan lain, so jgn tanya ape2 pasal dia.."
as she can read my mind, sbb itulah benda 1st yg i nak tya... well, after that nak jadikan cite kat blog ni, i terserempak plak with her ex (alone).. and i jadi x tau how to react! sbb b4 ni, kalau kami brjumpa/terserempak, mmg kami akan bertgur sapa, bergelak tawa, menyakat.. etc.. tp bila dia da cheated on my estranged fren, of coz la rasa cam x bes kan.. tp, actually i sbnarnya memang senang with this guy sbb dia funny...nice... etc.. dlu, masa dia punya birthday pun i wish.. nak raya pun i wish.. (his gf pun i wish gak, not only him tau!) wlaupun at that time me+my gf da lama x jumpa..

bila da jadi macam ni, dia pun tak tahu macam mana utk berdepan dengan i... so, akhirnya kami pretended macam x penah kenal pun... sbb? he cheated on my estranged fren... :( dan i x tau pun actually cerita sebenar2nye.. so, guys... i think i buat benda yg betul, sebab walaupun i da x rapat dgn my gf tu, tapi we were sooo closed n good 2gether... n its kinda betrayal kalau i still befren with her ex.. betul ke...?

this is life rite....? but i hope, they were still together.... eventhough i noe, its too late already... slamat pengantin baru... hmm.... ok guys, sayangilah kawan2 anda dan kekasih mereka (dgn berpada2) slagi mereka masih bersama... cha alif but!

Thursday, August 13, 2009

Men??

anor post?bermaksud saya dilanda kebosanan...
actually, i do not know what to share with u guys.. (thought it easy at 1st) my fren gave me a suggestion to write about men..? me? write about men?? me, men?? not a right candidate then... lol!

ok, give it a try jugakla. hehehe...i love history and 'her'story too... as i love to read.. tp kadangkala ape yg kita ingin tahu, tidak kita temui, kan? do u ever heard of Megat Panji Alam? i believed that most of ppl from Terengganu tahu pasal this guy.. my knowledge about this guy tidak seberapa la sangat... apa yg i tahu, dia berasal dari Terengganu (the origin actually as i read/heard was Pagar Ruyong) dan merupakan tunangan Tun Teja (correct me) iaitu anak kepada Bendahara Sri Amar DiRaja. Of course, sebelum dilahirkan oleh Hang Tuah atau mungkin Hang Nadim utk dipersembahkan kepada Sultan Mahmud Syah.

Ada sumber yg mengatakan, Megat Panji Alam mati dibunuh oleh Hang Tuah ketika cuba menuntut balik Tun Teja, tetapi ada juga yang mengatakan bahawa Megat Panji Alam tidak mati dibunuh oleh Hang Tuah, sebaliknya mati tua... Hmm.... which one is right?? But of course, most of us belived that he was killed by Hang Tuah, rite?? more dramatic.... jeng..jeng..jeng..

The main purpose i wrote about this guy ialah, e/t im not very clear about him... but as a Malaysian, i do belive that we shud know about our own history, rite... benda ini terdetik, when my colleague showed me our supplier name; guess what? it w 'Megat Panji Alam'!

she was laughing as she said "pelik kan nama org ni?"...

my reply was.. "ya, tp i rasa lebih kepada unik n agak bagus jugala his father namakan anak dia dgn nama2 yg berunsur sejarah ni.."

then she stared at me.. "ooo... so, MPA ni nama seseorang la ye? tak pernah dengar la pulak."

well then, of coz im kinda excited to tell her my knowledge yg ciput ni (kehkehkeh..)

That was nothing actually.. tp yang membuatkan i rasa seperti tidak percaya apabila she said "Tun Teja tu siapa pulak...?"

Wahhhhhhh....... how come u tak tahu about Tun Teja???? (ToT) tapi itu adalah kata2 yg keluar dari hatiku sahaja & tidak di mulut... (jaga hati member (?), beb!)

Aduhai, kalau tak minat sejarah pun takkan tak pernah tengok cerita Hang Tuah? atau pun PGL??? dan rasanya banyak sangat tempat2 di Malaysia ni yg menggunakan nama Tun Teja sebagai nama jalan, asrama, kampung mungkin...hmm.. dan pic ini adalah daripada cerita P.Ramlee' Hang Tuah di mana Zaiton melakonkan watak Tun Teja tersebut.
so, ??? cintailah sejarah kita, ok?

wait, thats not a post about men! lol!!!!...

says who?? MPA tu kan lelaki.... kan..?kan..? Hang Tuah??? hahaha..

Lol!!! what a failure...

Maaflah anda2 sekalian jika rasa this post telah menyelewengkan kalian.. Ok, i akan try lagi nanti ;p ... hmmm (hopefully). till then, ciou! ooppss.. wasalam..

p/s - know about MPA better? share wif me pls... Ty.

the pilot post (???)

he-hey...

is this for real??? lol...

well, how come this is happened to me...? a simple answer for that - i was bored! i was googling around n found 1 of my frens' blog... and here i am.. serendipity huh?? lol... mayb i sound quite pathetic here, but guys i'm a newbie (a great xcuse, rite?) hehehe... but this is great, coz from now on i can express n share my feelin' (can i?) here... ROTFL!!!
well, till then... ciao!


p/s - ppl always address me as 'laila' but actually it's 'lela'... :">